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Arch Hart's visit

"The best protection against depression you will ever find is to develop habits of happiness."


Arch Hart's visit good value

Dr. Archibald Hart, Senior Professor of Psychology and Dean Emeritus of the School of Psychology at Fuller Theological Seminary, spoke at last week's Northwest Clergy Conference in Gunnedah, a Saturday afternoon seminar in Tamworth and at St Marks Chapel on Sunday morning. Many folk commented on the value and usefulness of his talks as well as his warm, enthusiastic presentation.

Steve Love from AM Chapel took helpful notes of the Saturday Seminar and the Sunday morning talk - Click here for a PDF copy

A podcast of Sunday's talk can be downloaded from http://www.stmarkstalks.org/

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The Habits of Happiness – Dr Arch. Hart

Notes [SL] from seminar – St Peter’s Anglican church, Vera St., South Tamworth

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Prof of Psychol & Dean Emeritus at Fuller Seminary etc

A South African-American (in the US for almost 40 years, previously a civil engineer)

Website: http://www.hartinstitute.com

Martin Seligman (‘Positive Psychology’) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martin_Seligman

  1. Religious faith –consistently the top winner in studies
  2. Relationships/friendships
  3. Good social skills

Happiness boosters

  1. Intentionally do something selfless for another each day
  2. Allow yourself to make mistakes
  3. Give up expecting others to be perfect
  4. When offended/wronged, forgive the offender asap (‘instant forgiveness’)
  5. Try to simplify your life
  6. Get enough sleep. Minimum sleep need for a healthy adult is 9 hours/day (this evoked a big response in the audience). Doesn’t have to be in one block, but sleep is made up of 1.5 hour cycles, with dream (restorative) sleep at the end of each cycle). One of the major causes of stress (excess adrenaline/cortisol) is insufficient sleep. Adrenaline and stress… less than 6 hours sleep increase risk of cardiovasc. Disease; higher cortisol levels leads to more depression) (Hart jokingly said alarm clocks are demon-possessed; also dislikes phones, email etc)
  7. Spend as much time as you can with loved ones (work/life balance)
  8. Spend 20 mins per day –eg early morning - in quiet reflection/meditation
  9. Before going to sleep at night, make a list of things on your mind (to get it out of your head and allow good sleep)
  10. Before sleep, do the ‘gratitude game’. List five things you are grateful for. (At this point, Hart. Steve Williams and audience broke more or less into singing ‘Count Your Blessings’)
  11. Creative tasks. No mater how small, regularly complete a creative task
  12. Don’t put off getting a life. (eg storing everything up for retirement or the annual holiday)

Depression: the consequence of not knowing how to be happy; the robber of happiness (Hart later distinguished between different types of mood disorders… reactive vs biological depression, bipolar disorder etc).

  1. Blocks brain’s pain killers, the endorphins (to prevent self destruction)
  2. Blocks brain’s natural tranquillisers. Leading to increased anxiety
  3. Blocks the 3 types of neurotransmitters (dopamine, serotonin, norepinephrine (syn noradrenaline), which leads to depression

Increased pain, anxiety, depression: all 3 are designed to pull you out of the situation. A 4 th effect is immunosuppression.

(not much discussion re acceptable doses of caffeine)

Treatment of depression

Biological depression: ‘stress robbing us of neurotransmitters.

Reactive depression. Eg bereavement. Loss. Not the same as biological, Nothing is broken, so medication not indicated. A grieving. Discovery process (discovering what the loss means) Death, loss of job, divorce etc. Essentially requires a good counsellor. Good listening a powerful healing force.

Biological depression

Male vs female depression

Signs of depression

Antidepressants

Question time

A man in a black hole…

A poignant poem, about a man in a hole. ‘Read out on Sat 12 May at the ‘Hart meeting’ by Peter Brain. It’s in his book: ‘Going the distance…” (Matthias Media)

(The value of good friends, listening, compassion – for those who are depressed)

Comment from Maureen Heap am 13 May: her notes were similar to mine, except she feels I de-emphasised the negative references to caffeine. J

Keys to Enduring Happiness – Dr Arch Hart

AM service, Sunday 13 May 07, St Marks, UNE

 

Five Principles (from Hart’s book) on building a happiness et point:

1. Happiness is a ‘transplant’ or ‘graft on job’

2. Don’t compare yourself with others

3. Learn to value the little things in life

4. Happiness is relative

5. ‘Lord, thy will be done

[Aside: in conversation with Peter Brain: PB - Never say to a depressed person, ‘Call me when you need me/I can be of help’. They will never call, you call them “]

Doran story: the Optimist and the Pessimist

Howard, a born optimist, told my wife Joy this story after the service this morning.

There were two children in a family: one was an optimist, the other a pessimist.

One Christmas, the parents decided to try to even things up by being somewhat disproportionate in their gift giving.

In one room, they piled up all sorts of wonderful presents for the pessimist, more than a child could hope to get.

In the other room, the room for the optimist’s present(s), they arranged for a truckload of horse manure to be delivered.

On Christmas morning, the children were allowed to go to their respective rooms where their presents were.

From the pessimist’s room came loud wailing and woeful crying: “Look at all these toys! I will never have enough time to play with all these…!! (sob)”

From the optimist’s room came the sounds of laughter and shovelling. On opening the door, the parents saw the optimist, shovelling manure out of the window and gleefully saying, ‘With all this horse manure, there must be a horse under here somewhere!!”

(But, what I want to know from Howard is: ”What happened to the optimist when he got to the bottom of the pile?”)

Stephen Love

13 May 07

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